Episode 280

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22nd Jan 2026

Self-Discovery, Confidence, and Body Image: How Boudoir Photography Empowers Women

In this episode of Life Equals Choices, Choices Equal Life, host Kim Olver continues her conversation on self-discovery with Liz Hansen, owner of Chicago Boudoir Photography. Liz shares her powerful journey from education to photography and explains how boudoir photography can become a deeply transformative experience for women at every stage of life.

This candid conversation explores confidence, body image, self-worth, and the courage it takes to step outside your comfort zone. Liz describes how thousands of women have walked into her studio feeling unsure and walked out feeling empowered—not because their bodies changed, but because their relationship with themselves did. Together, Kim and Liz discuss why worth is not earned through roles, achievements, or appearance, but exists simply because you are alive.

You’ll hear how boudoir photography challenges long-standing cultural beliefs about women’s bodies, beauty standards, and who confidence is “for.” Liz explains what actually happens during a boudoir session, how trust and safety are built, and why seeing yourself—unfiltered and unedited—can be a profound act of self-acceptance. This episode also addresses common reasons women choose boudoir experiences, from milestones and new beginnings to healing after loss, illness, or divorce.

If you’re navigating self-discovery, rebuilding confidence, or learning to honor your inherent worth, this episode offers a refreshing and empowering perspective. It’s a reminder that your body is not something to fix, but a vessel that has carried your story—and deserves to be celebrated.

Be sure to tune in next week for Part Two of this inspiring conversation.

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Life = Choices; Choices = Life
Making better choices for a better life
Life = Choices; Choices = Life is about learning to replace external control psychology with radical responsibility and appreciation so you can make better choices to create the life you want to have. Kim Olver is a leading expert in Choice Theory™ psychology and will share what she has gleaned from the legendary work of Dr. William Glasser, as well as sharing her unique perspective based on over 30 years of study and research.

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Kim Olver

Kim Olver's mission is to help people make better choices for a better life. She is a licensed clinical professional counselor, a nationally certified counselor and a board certified coach. She is a world renowned expert in Choice Theory™ , a highly sought after international speaker and an award-winning author. Her books include: Leveraging Diversity at Work with Sylvester Baugh (2006), Secrets of Happy Couples (2010), Choosing Me Now (2019) and A Choice Theory Guide to Relationships (2019). Kim is currently working on the forthcoming books, The Definitive Guide to Coaching and Radical Responsibility and Appreciation. Kim is the author of The Relationship Center blog; creator of Empowerment Parenting, a 25-hour parenting curriculum for court-mandated parents; and owner of Academy of Choice, a BCC (Board Certified Coach) Coaching Program. Kim worked five years as a counselor for schizophrenics in a community-based residential program, 17 years holding various positions with a specialized foster care agency, was Executive Director of Glasser Institute for Choice Theory for nine years and the Executive Director for William Glasser International for eight; and began her own company, Coaching for Excellence, in 2005. She is a model of what she teaches about taking responsibility for the things she can influence and control and finding appreciation for those things she can't. Kim believes radical responsibility and appreciation are the keys to a happy, peaceful, satisfying life.