DEIB, Belonging, and What's at Stake: A Conversation with Parul Iarrobino (Part 1)

What does belonging really mean—and why does it matter now more than ever?

In this episode of Life = Choices; Choices = Life, Kim Olver continues her conversation with storyteller, author, and activist Paul Iarrobino about DEIB (Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging) and the current cultural climate surrounding it.

Together, they explore the difference between inclusion and true belonging—and why simply “doing the right things” isn’t enough if people don’t feel genuinely welcomed and valued.

Paul shares powerful real-world examples from his work with LGBTQ+ communities, schools, and organizations, highlighting:

• Why belonging is often overlooked in DEIB conversations
• How performative inclusion differs from genuine connection
• The impact of current anti-DEI sentiment on schools and communities
• What’s happening for LGBTQ+ youth, especially in today’s climate
• Where hope still exists, and why community action matters

This episode also addresses the broader implications of policy shifts, cultural division, and the importance of showing up, not just when something affects us personally, but because it’s the right thing to do.

This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation.