Co-Parenting After Divorce: How to Put Children First

Divorce can be one of the most difficult transitions a family faces, but it does not have to damage a child’s future. In this episode of Life = Choices; Choices = Life, Kim Olver continues her conversation with attorney Christopher Anderson about how parents can navigate divorce while protecting their children’s emotional well-being. Don't forget to check out Part 1.

Christopher shares practical guidance on healthy co-parenting, including why parents should focus less on controlling routines in the other household and more on supporting the child’s relationship with both parents. He explains how parenting plans are meant to guide families—not control them—and why flexibility, trust, and cooperation are often more beneficial for children than rigid adherence to legal documents.

The conversation also explores how parents can avoid common mistakes during divorce, such as questioning children about the other household, competing for affection, or unintentionally placing emotional burdens on their kids. Instead, Christopher emphasizes the importance of creating a hopeful vision for the future and helping children feel secure, loved, and supported during family transitions.

You’ll also hear about Christopher’s innovative approach to family law at New Leaf Family, which focuses on future-oriented problem-solving rather than conflict-driven litigation.

If you’re navigating divorce, co-parenting, or parenting plans, this episode offers thoughtful insight on how to help children remain resilient and emotionally secure while families adjust to new structures.

Learn more about Christopher Anderson and New Leaf Family at https://www.newleaf.family.