Episode 309

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10th Sep 2026

Teaching Students to Think: SEL, Character & Critical Thinking with Dr. Ed Dunkelblau | Part 2

What if the most important thing schools can teach students isn't more information, but how to think about the information they encounter?

In Part 2 of Kim Olver's conversation with Dr. Ed Dunkelblau, they explore how social-emotional learning is evolving to meet the challenges students face in today's world.

Ed introduces SECD 2.0, an expanded approach to social, emotional, and character development that goes beyond traditional SEL competencies to include purpose, curiosity, and healthy skepticism.

With information available at our fingertips and young people constantly exposed to social media, influencers, pundits, politicians, and competing claims, students need more than the ability to absorb information. They need to know how to evaluate it, question its accuracy, consider who is delivering it, recognize potential agendas, and think for themselves.

Kim and Ed also explore the complexity of ethics and values. What happens when two important values conflict? Is honesty always more important than kindness? What happens when loyalty conflicts with accountability? Their conversation demonstrates why character development can't simply be reduced to a list of values students are expected to follow.

They also discuss the connection between social-emotional and character development and Mental Freedom®. Ed explains how greater self-awareness, empathy, decision-making, purpose, and curiosity can expand a person's ability to make intentional choices and reduce the barriers to Mental Freedom.

And what would happen if educators developed these same competencies themselves? Kim and Ed imagine schools where educators are better able to connect with students, understand their experiences, model emotional intelligence, and create environments where students can learn to think rather than simply learn information.

Connect with Dr. Ed Dunkelblau:

Website: teacheq.com

Email: ed@teacheq.com

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About the Podcast

Life = Choices; Choices = Life
Practical Conversations About Leadership, Relationships, and Personal Responsibility Through Mental Freedom
Hosted by author, speaker, and coach Kim Olver, Life = Choices; Choices = Life explores how personal responsibility, emotional awareness, and intentional decision-making shape our relationships, leadership, and everyday lives.

Drawing on the principles of Choice Theory® and the framework of Mental Freedom®, Kim has thoughtful conversations with experts, educators, coaches, and leaders about how people can respond to life with greater clarity, connection, and purpose.

Kim Olver is the author of several books on relationships and personal growth, including Mental Freedom®: You Hold the Key, Choosing Me Now, and Secrets of Happy Couples.

Each episode offers practical insights on topics such as:

• Relationships and couples
• Parenting and family dynamics
• Leadership and workplace culture
• coaching and personal development
• Education and human behavior
• Emotional resilience and mental health
• Diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging

Through interviews and occasional solo reflections, Kim helps listeners understand how our thinking shapes our actions—and how choosing responsibility over blame can lead to healthier relationships, stronger leadership, and a greater sense of freedom.

If you're interested in personal growth, meaningful conversations, and learning how to respond to life with intention rather than reaction, this podcast offers ideas, tools, and perspectives you can apply right away.

Because ultimately,

Life equals choices… and choices equal life.

About your host

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Kim Olver

Kim Olver's mission is to help people make better choices for a better life. She is a licensed clinical professional counselor, a nationally certified counselor and a board certified coach. She is a world renowned expert in Choice Theory™ , a highly sought after international speaker and an award-winning author. Her books include: Leveraging Diversity at Work with Sylvester Baugh (2006), Secrets of Happy Couples (2010), Choosing Me Now (2019) and A Choice Theory Guide to Relationships (2019). Kim is currently working on the forthcoming books, The Definitive Guide to Coaching and Radical Responsibility and Appreciation. Kim is the author of The Relationship Center blog; creator of Empowerment Parenting, a 25-hour parenting curriculum for court-mandated parents; and owner of Academy of Choice, a BCC (Board Certified Coach) Coaching Program. Kim worked five years as a counselor for schizophrenics in a community-based residential program, 17 years holding various positions with a specialized foster care agency, was Executive Director of Glasser Institute for Choice Theory for nine years and the Executive Director for William Glasser International for eight; and began her own company, Coaching for Excellence, in 2005. She is a model of what she teaches about taking responsibility for the things she can influence and control and finding appreciation for those things she can't. Kim believes radical responsibility and appreciation are the keys to a happy, peaceful, satisfying life.